Let’s Play 20 Questions!
- May 17
- 2 min read
Here are 20 of the most pivotal and life-changing questions we can ask ourselves, IF we want to be authentically happy and live long and healthy lives.

Be honest. Be kind. Begin.
Grab a notebook and a pen. Get comfy and allow yourself the space mentally and physically to clear, create, and map out your life. #neveralone #breathe
If you are having a hard time answering these questions- STOP. Answer one at a time, possibly weekly. Spend the entire week thinking about the question. Think and feel where it impacts you, how it makes you think differently, and notice any resistance or fear that arises. Here, you will meet yourself. Love her/ him. Show them that love and patience moves mountains!
Little by little. Bit by bit. Little bit by little bit. -Paul Simon
20 Life-Changing Questions
1. What are my core values, and how do they guide my decisions?
2. What truly makes me happy, and how can I prioritize those things in my life?
3. What are my long-term goals, and what steps am I taking to achieve them?
4. What fears are holding me back, and how can I confront them?
5. How do I define success, and is that definition aligned with my true desires?
6. What relationships in my life are nurturing, and which ones are draining?
7. What skills or knowledge do I want to develop, and what prevents me from pursuing them?
8. How do I deal with failure, and what can I learn from my past setbacks?
9. Am I living in alignment with my authentic self, or am I conforming to others' expectations?
10. What legacy do I want to leave behind, and am I taking actions toward that legacy?
11. How can I practice gratitude and mindfulness to enhance my daily life?
12. What habits are serving me well, and which ones do I need to change?
13. How do I handle stress, and what techniques can I implement for better management?
14. What would I do if I knew I could not fail?
15. How do I respond to criticism, and how can I use it for personal growth?
16. In what ways can I give back to my community or make a positive impact on others?
17. What does self-care mean for me, and how can I incorporate it regularly?
18. How do I measure my progress and celebrate my achievements?
19. What assumptions am I making that could be limiting my perspective?
20. If I could only achieve one thing in my lifetime, what would it be and why?





If you are having a hard time answering these questions- STOP. Answer one at a time, like weekly. Spend the entire week thinking about the question. Think and feel where it impacts you, how it makes you think differently, and notice any resistance or fear that arises. Here, you will meet yourself. Love her/ him. Show them that love and patience moves mountains!
Little by little. Bit by bit. Little bit by little bit. -Paul Simon